Sometimes, we have no trouble starting a story or project, but we’re unable to stick to one for long enough to actually get it done.
That’s fine if we’re just playing and exploring, but at some point, we need to learn to push for completion in order to grow.
The trouble is that we tend to rebel against any restrictions on our freedoms. We might start out with enthusiasm, but you will hit a point where continuing feels like a chore.
Freedom is important because it’s one of the few (if not the only) values that one can argue as being intrinsically good. Restrictions are important because constraints now can lead to freedom later. When used in this way, it’s called “self-control” or “discipline”.
This tension between Freedom and Constraint is present whenever we have the power to choose. And we always have that power, even if it might not seem like it. So how do we resolve the tension?